Rejection can be one of the most painful things to experience that many people hold on to and struggle with their entire lives.
But there is actually a very easy way to let that go, and to shift that energy into one of trust and confidence. Check out this video and learn a guaranteed way to heal your illusion of rejection.
So I have a really personal story I’d like to share with you from when I was a teenager. I was really smitten over this guy and things went sideways. We both had pretty poor communication skills and when things got “awkward,” it pretty much dismantled into nothing. I didn’t really understand what happened and held onto the pain for decades.
I wasn’t confident enough to share my feelings, I didn’t have the tools to talk about them, and I didn’t know how to be vulnerable. I was heartbroken for so long and the pain of rejection kept coming up in my life.
Fast forward a few decades to me hanging with a mutual friend of ours from high school. We started revisiting the old days and he shared with me that my first love had actually gotten really heavily into drugs. When I investigated more, I learned that it was the same time that we drifted apart.
I realized that I actually wasn’t being rejected at all, that our relationship evaporating was spirit protecting me. What I thought was rejection was actually protection. Spirit was protecting me from what could have been a very messy, and far more painful, and even traumatic experience than what I had.
Luckily, by the grace of God and my commitment to healing, I was able to let go of the pain and had healed the illusion of rejection far before finding out the circumstances. But for me, this proves that everything really does happen for our highest good, and that the illusion of rejection is really the truth of protection.
I offer you the opportunity to look at the circumstances of any misbelief you hold regarding feeling rejected and see this through a new and more meaningful lens..
If you have a situation that’s really hurting and you need some help and you want to talk through it, please schedule a call with me and we will get you sorted. xoxo, Nykki
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