I work with people daily to help them realize their goals – whether it is in their health, their business, their finances, their relationships…
You name it, we’re doing it.
How can that be so, you might be asking?
Well, because inside each of these topics is the same YOU that keeps you stuck and in pain and from having the body, the relationship, the business and the money that you want.
I’m really good at shining a light on the unconscious blocks you create that keep you repeating patterns that keep you from success. Once we know what they are, we untangle them and reprogram them so you actually create momentum and start to create a new story and life experience.
So let’s dive in shall we?? I made a video for you, but first I want to set the stage for you.
Here’s the thruline – there are 4 words that create a thought loop in your brain that are your BIGGEST unconscious block to success. Here’s how it goes:
“I’ll do that when….”
It can also be disuguised as,
“As soon as I get thru x,y,z, then I will do ___________.”
“After x,y,z is done/over, then I will start ___________.”
You get the picture. The bottom line? YOU put off YOUR own success, YOUR own momentum, YOUR own process, and THIS is what keeps you stuck, limited, in pain, unhappy, and even broke.
Does that sound familiar?
Here’s scenario #1. You have not been taking care of yourself. You are making poor food choices, drinking alcohol regularly, not eating proper meals, skipping your workouts….
As a result, you feel like crap, are carrying about 10 extra pounds, you don’t feel good in your body, you don’t feel attractive, you don’t want to get dressed in the morning, and you even don’t want to be intimate with your partner.
Guess what happens next?
You start pulling away from your lover, you start pushing off your own goals in your business and instead focus on everyone else achieve theirs.
Your self esteem goes thru the toilet. Your confidence goes down the drain. And you KNOW you need to do something and to do it now, but…
There is a big push at the office that is taking all your time and focus,
One of your kids is sick and needs 200% of your attention,
You have a trip planned in a few weeks so why start now?
There is a wedding next weekend and you know you will want to drink….
You get the picture right?
So guess what? You tell yourself, “I’ll start eating better just as soon as we are back from that trip.”
Then after that trip, you get home and need a few more days to get into the swing because you are so behind with work. And then there is a really fun party coming up so you might as well wait until that is over, right about that time one of your kids gets sick and….
And yup, the cycle continues and you continue to live in pain and procrastination which leaves you feeling like crap about yourself and your life.
No one and No thing will ever give you permission to put yourself first. And this is why I LOVE my 21 Cleanse – it is a 21 day detox that kick starts you into a completely different body, mind and life experience.
For starters, it gets the toxins out of your body so you can completely reset your system and get that heaviness, lethargy, brain fog, and mild depression out of your existence.
And because you don’t have to starve, and instead eat 3 plant based meals a day, you kick start your healthy eating habits and get into a really good routine with making positive choices no matter what happens or where you go.
So that’s how these sneaky little words manifest in your health, and thus impact you and your life.
So guess how this same phase, or “theme” manifests for my coaching clients?
They have a goal or goals, and ….
They lack structure in their days to create momentum for themselves and that means that their goals and dreams ALWAYS gets pushed off until tomorrow, or the end of the week, or… really, never until we started working together.
They end up never having time for themselves and as a result are exhausted, depleted, and even mildly depressed because they spend so much of their mental energy beating themselves up for not doing what they KNOW they need to do, and instead putting everyone and everything else first.
They don’t set clear boundaries, and if they do make it clear that they have a “need,” them no one respects their request to have time and space for themselves.
So, “I’ll do that (my goal, my dream, my priority, etc) when….”
Results in so much pain you are not even aware of the depths of this impact and how it manifests in your behavior.
If you are ready to get out of pain and put yourself first, you can click here to apply for a complimentary coaching call.
Here’s the video I created for you that dives a little deeper into this:
So my challenge for you is – what are you pushing off right now that is keeping you stuck, unhappy, depressed, exhausted, and living in the same exact place you have found yourself for a long, long time.
How much longer do you want to sit in that pain?
What are those swirling thoughts in your brain that are just yearning, like an ache in your heart, to be birthed into the world so you can have the self-expression and the success and the abundance and the life that you dream and crave from the depths of your being?
Are you ready to Un-Stuck Yourself?
Stop waiting, start doing. And if you need help, you can click here to apply for a complimentary coaching call.
This way we can kickstart you and get you super clear is what you want and what’s in the way. Then we can dissolve those limiting beliefs and negative patterns, create structure to accomplish your goals, and help you learn how to set super clear and strong boundaries.
As a result, you will feel safe and good in your own skin, you will have confidence in who you are and what you have to offer the world, and you will stop waiting for permission and saying yes to yourself.
Isn’t that Awesome?
Again, here is how I can help:
- Detox – learn more here
- Psychic Session – book a reading here
- Apply HERE for a complimentary coaching session